The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. If you push the issue at this time, then you can expect that she will be rude or cruel. While your crush might be a Scorpio sun, his personality might be influenced by his rising, moon, and Venus signs as well. hopefully this is helpful :) I'm thinking about writing one on the ego of scorpio males ;) ( and females!). we do talk about sex, but the difference is, he want to know me deeper. I know I hurt him and I regret and I said that. Scorpio men employ various tests to assess a woman's self-image and confidence levels. Secondly, even I am dating a scorpio who sometimes withdraws but who cares , I am going to take it until it reaches my threshold and then i will break it off with him, thirdly , as a leo i am prone to displays of pride and arrogance- the fact that I can acknowledge it and try to be a better person in relationships and not let my Leonine shortcomings define me, so if you are dating a Scorpio who can not control husband baser instincts then please ask him you fuck off , life is too short to run behind weirdos, Fourth of all , I am pretty sure that each of you frustrated girls out here are interesting, beautiful and amazing human beings, remember that when you feel like you are being used. But do I have hope? You have to be very careful when lying to a Scorpio man because he is excellent at reading people and will probably know intuitively when you are lying to him. Hasn't replies to a single email. So, I got so pissed because I was very hurt, thinking he didn't care about me and my feelings to let me know and make sure I'm ok. Of course I understand he was sick and needed to take care of himself but my problem was that he didn't tell me until he was already leaving. I said in my emails that I know he loves me too and that he broke up with me out of anger and he should think about it and let me know, but I havent heard from him yet. Number 1 tip. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice He did special prayers and used his power Within 7 days my husband called me and he said he was sorry for all the emotional pains he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily and our child is happy too. " Anytime I come from a well meaning place they can get so defensive. :( scorpions will love u or they will hate u. Libra- I can totally relate to if scorpio man doesn't respond to my texts, I think he's done. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. Part of me was over the moon with joy, but another part of me wanted to yell at him! Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. 4 You want more from the relationship than he does. Be straightforward and try to get to the bottom of the issue. Then I explained I do like him but it seemed he made up his mind. Common personality traits and how they manifest in romance, Top reasons why he's off the grid and ignoring your texts, Explanations for his off-and-on behavior and sudden blow-ups, Important tips for cultivating a healthy relationship. Very true. Scorpios are not too fond of change, therefore it would be difficult for them to live a side chick or man lifestyle. My Mom's last wish was for us to meet. The trick is to trigger certain powerful emotions within him. So I recently met a scorpio and we instantly had a spiritual, physical and emotional connection. I KNOW that he loves me - he told me he did two days ago in a phone call and then he didn't respond to my three texts today and I do that damn scales balancing act thing that I hate so much. Please help! What should I do ? Such an amazing man and my rock! The weird thing is that I'm on birth control so wtf just happened?! Financially you are in a good place. Instant connection, we see each other daily, even talk about our future. He can't expect you to read his mind, but here's what he might be feelingand likely has been feeling for quite some time. Too much of us isn't good. He is very obsessive and jealous type of guy. So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. On the same note, don't let Scorpio's bad reputation lead you to misjudge someone. We were great in the beginning and then slowly, he started to withdraw from me. Below are some of the reasons he may have gone quiet, has given you the silent treatment, or has just gotten less enthusiastic in his actions: 1. The Bug came by the Bar saw me sitting there smiling at him. I seem to have trouble with expressing my feelings in an non emotional way, I do not like to hurt peoples feelings or burden them and, can let build up to an point and then either pull away or confront, normally in an an aggressive type manner, because dont really like confrontation. In other words, if you can't tell which of the first four reasons is the reason he has withdrawn, then you really don't know each other well enough for him to play mind games and expect you to sort it out. So I have. What do I do with this friendship???!:((. Love him anyway. Some people may take that as being taken for granted, but I guess all I can say is, if that bothers you, talk about it. he ask my fav music, random question like kiss ot hug? I just recently started dating a Scorpio man, and I am a Capricorn woman. Very strange behavior from a man in his 40's. He would say things like " you know i can't make you happy. this morning when we went to my office he is very sweet. They arent wrong in this assumption the people you spend your time with have an irrevocable impact on your quality of life, and sometimes ensuring that you only keep the right ones around is essential. i have told him early tht i'm looking more than just sex, but he said he prefers to go with the flow. We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. Nothing. I can say that Scorpios usually doesn't cheat and that's big to us in relationships. If you notice they aren't interested in. Him and I were only in a friend's with benefits thing for over a year. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. We haven't been intimate and the bullshit has gone on for a year. Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. What should I be doing when he is acting cold? Drama drama and drama.Disappearances hot and cold. I believe if you are confident in yourself and understand when a Scorpio needs space to give it to them and be there for them when they return then things should be ok. I will say he has the best heart and loves with all of it. Hi guys, I don't want to be offensive to anyone, but I don't understand why all of you don't walk, wait, run from a guy pulling this crap on you?? I was in a Bad Relationship which has been pretty done soon or later and i thought it would be good to get out of the House and so see the Bugs Band. Be strong and dont let him control you. Then he blocked me! Is this how Scorpio men behave? If you aren't sure about him, don't put up with his games. He ignored my calls and texts for days and finally when he did hey back to me he said he can't commit to anything.. When a Scorpio man is not interested anymore he doesn't want to know anything about you. both of us want sex but somehow, i started to doubt him and realize i dont really just want sex. But when they do finally lash out, they do so in brilliant form. He does understand that it's not fare for him to expect me to read his mind and he is trying to work on it but he does slip back into that a lot. I really dont know who the ideal sign for a Scorpio is, Well Said.a typical scorpio behavior. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. We do everything together, but I am just a "friend" no PDA etc.. which is 110% fine with me. He's amazing, caring, funny.. Just wonderful but when he is upset, he goes off the grid. demanding, all this good Things a Guy should have . I decided not to talk to him anymore and he kept asking me to talk. Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? If a Leo is pushing people away, its usually because they are truly afraid that they are going to be pushed away first, and this is how they reclaim their power. He's quite private though. At first my feelings got hurt and I was quiet. Stay calm. The coin in your hands feels cold and distant as you toss it skillfully back and forth between your fingers. To everyone out there firstly, although I personally love my sunsign and I do think people possess certain core characteristics based on their sunsigns , you have to acknowledge the fact that every individual is complex and not binary ( I.e. Amy DeMarco from Chicago on July 30, 2012: I dated a Scorpio for about six months and your description here is pretty accurate. I know they behave negative but see them positive ! He was really obsessive and then he'd cut me off for days. Would appreciate your advice. How much i showed my love to him , he got more silence . Sometimes, you need to just be honest with a Scorpio man, asking him if there is something that is bothering him. I have deleted him now, I just want to know why do they disappear instead of fixing the problem when apparently its his fault that he messed up by going on date with someone else. Compared to the scorpio where evrything goes down to sex, not many questions..just flirting and dirty talks Hi there I am a Scorpio also a boy. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 30, 2012: amymarie 5 - Thanks! I have never cared or missed or loved anyone the way I do him. He talked to my Mom and she adored him. Let him know that you are aware of what is going on calmly, and wait for his reaction to determine how to proceed. We're both show offs that work for each others attention, but sometimes he doesn't even acknowledge me. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. but he did not even read my message for 2 weeks. Another reason could be that the person feels like the other person is being too independent and does not need . Remember, Scorpio people are like sponges; they soak up information around them and are always keen to learn. However, they shy away from people when they recognize that they only want to be with them to prove a point or enact revenge or look cool. Scorpios wont commit to someone they dont truly and completely love for the right reasons and youll be surprised to know that underneath all the harsh exterior, theres a very honest and true heart that wouldnt ever hurt another person for their own gain. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. I believe that when he withdraws like this and possibilities one, two, and three have been ruled out, it says a lot about his confidence in the relationship. He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. He may not be saying much, but I guarantee he is listening.